Let Go of Expectations

It’s easy to accuse younger generations of entitlement, but let’s be honest—seniors can struggle with it too. I have noticed this especially at Walt Disney World. We complain about rising ticket prices, the cost of meals, and the never-ending crowds. We envy those who can ride all the rides without standing in line.

However, it is important to realize that entitlement isn’t about what we have or don’t have. It’s about our mindset. Are we walking into Disney feeling enchanted by the experience—or entitled to something more?

The Allure of More

Many of us Disney-lovers have daydreamed about the perks of DVC—access to deluxe resorts, exclusive lounges, and discounted park tickets. But membership comes with a hefty price tag, and at this point in my life, I would never break even on that investment.

And then there’s Club 33, Disney’s most exclusive membership offering private lounges, fine dining, and an air of mystery. But the $50,000+ initiation fee + annual dues makes it a privilege reserved for a select few.

That being said, I don’t begrudge those who can afford these experiences. One of the remarkable things about Disney is its ability to market to all economic levels while still providing a valuable, meaningful experience for everyone.

When Limitations Get in the Way

But entitlement isn’t just about finances—it can also creep in when we feel less than because of our physical limitations.

Many of us can’t walk as far as we used to. We need to take more breaks, rent an ECV, or plan our park days to include naps 😊 There are rides we once loved that we now skip because our backs and joints just won’t cooperate. The days of eating unlimited Disney sweet treats without consequence are long gone!

But just like financial limitations, physical limitations don’t have to diminish the magic of Disney. We can focus on what we can do rather than what we can’t.

The Phil Dunphy Syndrome

This reminds me of a Modern Family episode (Season 5, Episode 18), when Phil Dunphy checks into a Las Vegas hotel and becomes obsessed with upgrading his room. He’s convinced he deserves the best suite and keeps pushing for more—until he’s so caught up in chasing luxury that he forgets to enjoy the trip itself.

How often do we do the same? We fixate on what we should have, what others are getting, or how things used to be, and we lose sight of the magic right in front of us.

Learning the Secret of Contentment

Paul writes in Philippians 4:12:

"I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want."

Disney is a place of wonder, but entitlement can easily rob us of that wonder. Instead of focusing on what we don’t have, we can shift our perspective and embrace gratitude for what we do have.

• Maybe we can’t stay at a deluxe resort, but we can soak in the charm of a value resort. While I thoroughly enjoyed my birthday celebration at the Animal Kingdom Lodge, I honestly prefer Pop Century's convenient skyliner transportation.
• Maybe I can’t eat every meal at a fine dining establishment, but I honestly prefer sampling the small plates at Epcot's annual festivals.
• And while we sometimes need to slow down more than before, we now have the time to appreciate beautiful details.

The Real Disney Magic

Entitlement tells us we’re missing out. Enchantment reminds us to savor the moment.

If we walk into Disney expecting shorter lines, cheaper prices, and more energy—we’ll likely leave frustrated. But if we walk in with open eyes and grateful hearts, we’ll find joy in the little things.

So, the next time we feel tempted to complain let’s ask ourselves: are we entitled—or enchanted?